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Why do some people think its necessary to bring up your past? Then judge you for it and you choices? Can someone explain that! Plz.

I can't explain why but it happens all the time. It is so frustrating!

Yeah. very frustrating.

Actions speak louder than words. With that said, judgemental people probably aren't worth your time. Or they themselves could just be stuck in the past. Or they want to bring you down to their level.

Either way, it doesn't matter. What matters is that you know your past and you know what you may have or haven't learned from it. Furthermore, be confident in who you are, your opinion of yourself should be the only one that matters.

Just my opinion.

Thanks Katy.

Anytime!

^^^ Absolutely!

My guess, premature judgement. They want to figure out what you 'are' by learning about what you were, instead of getting to know you in the now.

I think it's boredom with their own lives. They need something to talk about or complain about or gossip about, so they decide that you are more intersting than their own lives. Sucks to be the target. I know. I am the target---ALOT!

For what it's worth, here's my $0.02...

Your past is your own. The only person who gets to judge it , good OR bad, is you. If someone decides to judge you for it, well... those are the type of people I personally find I am better off without in my life. We're all human. Which means we're all fallible and we all make mistakes.

It's not the events and disasters of your life that define you.... it's how you deal with the aftermath. And as long as you learned from it, then why should anyone think they have the right to judge you? Frustrating... is definitely one way to put it!